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To read someone’s logs/diaries is to let them enter your mind, whether you realize it or not. I don’t mean that figuratively, I mean it in the sense that by reading someone in such detail, you risk inheriting them at least, and at most becoming them. If they are articulate and prolific, it means that you contemplate a new form of existence. Even if you are ambivalent it, or even loathe it, it is such a volume of informaiton, that you risk forming patterns and assuming others of a similar type have a similar mind. I guess the question is, do you want others to be a mystery, to be imagined by yourself, or to be transferred from your understanding of self/other. My sense is that we generally transfer our own consciousness onto others, which is distorting, and so reading the logs of others is a kind of calibration.

It’s a challenge to articulate any given moment of consciousness. I found myself in a particular feeling, and tried to deconstruct it. First, my vision: I was looking at spatial objects in a room—a vase of flowers, the thing, and the shadow it casts. But that snapshot has a history: they’re from our wedding, and our five year anniversary is coming up. But part of any moment is the afterglow of the recent past too: I had gone to the coffee shop in almost freezing winter, I felt discouraged about my own writing practice, and then I completely forgot about all that while talking to a baby through a stomach and playing her Claire de Lune. So any particular moment is like a collision of objects that each have a temporal history; it’s dense, and words are lossy.

How to explain awe? How can I even know the emotional peaks and ebbs that anyone else experiences, other than relative to my own?

I first had and heard about Maslow’s peak experiences when I was in my freshman year of college. The first time is a shock, but an “actualized” person then rounds this out into their default mode of consciousness. This means they don’t even notice it. Is awe a deviation from the baseline, or an absolute state? Is an idiot's accidental fall into a minute of enlightenment more awe-some than the monk who always lives there?

Maybe there is wisdom in calmness. Or maybe that's boring. Maybe stability and indifference is a kind of aloofness, a blindness to the edges of experience.

This all ties into the question of being unable to know if I’m an emotional person or not. I could either be the least or most emotional person ever. I think being expressive (emotive) and being emotional are entirely different things. Maybe the thing that’s normal to me is extraordinary to another; if they saw the way I see they’d weep from the aeshetic/emotional engine I’ve crafted over the years of my life. And maybe the inverse. Maybe I have the shell that needs to be cracked. Or maybe any shift from one head to another—if head shifting were a literal thing—would produce awe just from the state change, with no real sense of hierarchy on "better" states of consciousness.